Well, that's actually untrue; it flows in waves. But when life slows down, so do I. I have to consciously see the good in my situation, and since graduating it has admittedly taken a lot more effort than usual.
In my final year, I considered my 'nightmare scenario': having graduated jobless, I'd be forced to move back home indefinitely and feel separated from friends in London. It petrified me but, despite my efforts to avoid it, I am now living that very nightmare.
Except, it's not a nightmare.
It could be, of course, if I made it one. In every aspect of life, you have a choice between optimism and pessimism; even if you naturally sway towards the latter, sometimes you just have to put those blinkers on and fight for the former.
I didn't see myself working in retail when I graduated, and I don't like the idea of compromising on what I want to do in life. However, I needed a temporary job, and I got one, so I actively choose to see the positives. The role is in a sector I love, I am surrounded by amazing colleagues, I've made some great friends, have relatively flexible hours and a great opportunity to learn about brands I'd be interested in working with in the future.
Most importantly, I am saving up to follow my dream and move to London. Who knows, maybe I'll end up moving to Paris again? Or even New York? Having a target to aim for makes life so much sweeter, and I'm so excited for what the future holds.
I could easily moan, or let myself feel caged. I could easily get bitter about people I know who are finding their feet in their career, but none of that would make me happy. Taking pride in any job I have, doing it to the best of my ability and being supportive of other people's success is so much more rewarding.
You're not on your career path yet? That's fine! You want to travel but have no time or money? Make time! Make money! You're in a job you don't like? Set yourself a goal to find something else! Staying optimistic when something doesn't go to plan is a lesson I learnt the hard way, but rather than letting yourself snowball into a pit of negativity, even one small optimistic thought a day will build up enough momentum to get yourself out of an otherwise dispiriting situation.
"It isn't that simple!"
It is. Trust me :)
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